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Your Name’s on the Paper”: A Scrub Nurse’s Experience with Blame Culture in Nursing

It was a routine day in theatre—until the senior nurse walked in, holding a folded paper and quiet tension. She confronted my colleague, a fellow scrub nurse, about a missing instrument from a previous case. Though the tray had been checked thoroughly, the response was final: “I won’t blame anyone else but you. Your name’s on the paper.” That moment stuck with me—not because it was loud, but because it revealed how easily blame can land, even in so-called “blame-free” environments. This story is about accountability, compassion, and the courage we wish we had when silence feels safer.

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Surgeons Made Me Cry: When a Routine Dental Surgery Turned Into a Moment I’ll Never Forget

The surgeon made me cry. Not because of the procedure itself, but because of him—always agitated, never patient. His sharp tone cut deeper than the scalpel. Every rushed movement, every sigh of frustration, made me feel like a burden instead of a person. I tried to stay composed, but the tears came anyway, silent and hot. He didn’t notice. Or maybe he did, and just didn’t care.

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