In the operating room, I used to work tirelessly hoping to be seen—especially by a colleague who never acknowledged my efforts. No matter how hard I tried, the recognition never came. I realized I was caught in a cycle, trying to prove myself to people who had already decided not to see me. That day, I made a choice to stop chasing validation. I focused on my work, showed up with purpose, and found peace in doing my best—for myself. Sometimes, not proving anything is the bravest thing you can do. And surprisingly, that was more than enough.
