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Diary of a Burned-Out Nurse: Finding My Way Back

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One morning, I woke up and thought, “I can’t do this anymore.”

I wasn’t just tired—I was completely drained. My body ached, my mind felt numb, and the job I once loved started to feel like a heavy weight. That was the beginning of my experience with nurse burnout.

What Burnout Felt Like for Me

It wasn’t just long shifts or sore feet. Burnout crept in slowly. I started feeling:

  • Exhausted, even after a full night’s sleep
  • Emotionally distant from patients
  • Easily irritated over small things
  • Physical symptoms like headaches and stomach pain

I didn’t recognize myself anymore. And that scared me.

Looking Back: Why It Happened

Burnout didn’t hit me all at once. It built up over time. Here’s what I now see clearly:

  • Long hours with no real breaks
  • Too many patients, not enough time
  • Emotional weight from grief, suffering, and loss
  • Lack of support, where everyone was just trying to survive

It felt like I was drowning—and no one noticed.

How Burnout Changed Me

It affected everything:

  • My health: I got sick more often, and sleep became a struggle
  • My mindset: I felt detached, irritable, and ashamed
  • My care: I wasn’t as gentle or careful, and that scared me most

I knew I had to do something.

🌱 My Recovery Journey

Healing wasn’t quick, but these steps helped me find my way back:

1. Self-Care First

I stopped skipping meals. I made sleep a priority. Even short walks helped me breathe again.

2. Leaning on Others

Talking to colleagues reminded me I wasn’t alone. We shared stories, vented, and supported each other.

3. Morning Mindfulness

Each day, I closed my eyes for a minute, took deep breaths, and reminded myself why I chose nursing.

4. Professional Help

Counseling helped me unpack the guilt and grief. It gave me tools to cope and heal.

5. Boundaries Matter

I turned off work notifications after shifts. I protected time with family. It made a big difference.

6. Keep Learning

I signed up for workshops and read articles. Learning reignited my passion and broke the cycle of “just surviving.”

What Workplaces Can Do

Burnout isn’t just a personal issue—it’s a system issue. Hospitals need to:

  • Keep nurse-to-patient ratios safe
  • Offer real breaks and mental health support
  • Create a culture where asking for help is okay

We can’t fix burnout alone.

Burnout Hurts Patients Too

I’ll never forget the day I almost missed a critical sign in a patient. I was too tired. Thankfully, another nurse caught it.

Burnout doesn’t just affect us—it affects the people we care for.

My Burnout Prevention Checklist

Here’s what I do now to stay grounded:

  • Take short breaks during shifts
  • Practice deep breathing
  • Delegate when needed
  • Make time for hobbies
  • Talk openly with trusted colleagues
  • Ask for help early

Moving Forward

Some days are still hard. But now, I protect my health, set boundaries, and stay connected to my “why.”

Burnout is common—but it’s not your fault. Recovery is possible. You deserve care, too.

Final Thoughts

Nurse burnout prevention isn’t a one-time fix. It’s a journey of self-awareness, support, and balance.

Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s what helps you stay compassionate, safe, and fulfilled.

Let’s keep sharing stories. Let’s build a nursing community where we don’t just survive—but truly thrive.




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I am Kristel and I have been an operating room nurse for years

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